Say yes to regrets

There’s a whole culture of “No regrets” – from Social Media hashtags to books, from pop songs to tattoos. What does it really mean to have “No regrets”? I don’t really know. 

I have loads of regrets, that’s usually what I use as a compass to propel me in the direction of growth. Does this mean I torture myself thinking about those? Well … in the past I would have done that probably yes. However now, I just use it as “if I had known better, I would have done better”, so now that I do know better, I can re-adjust and re-calculate my route. 

Today is 1st April, 2024 – the first trimester has come and gone – whatever we did or didn’t do during those months is now history. And what better than the first day of a new month … or even better, the first day of a new month and also a Monday – to start thinking about the second quarter of the year, a whole new trimestre ahead of us. 

There’s a lot I could tell you about what I’ve been up to since I last posted here, I could also focus on how I regret not having posted anything in such a long time! But let’s leave that for my personal journal and focus on YOU now. 

Have you set yourself any goals of learning or improving a language in 2024? Have you already managed to start moving on with that? I’d love to hear about that! Do share! 

I’ll be posting here very soon. Keep your eyes peeled, and join my Newsletter updates here:   In the meantime, if you’re interested in practising your English and learning about the importance of regrets, I suggest you check what author Daniel H. Pink has to say about this. 

Thank you for reading!

Gaby 🙂

It’s time for new beginnings …

“The beginning is the most important part of any work” – Plato

Hiya!!! Thank you sooo much for being here! Roll up your sleeves and let’s go!

I haven’t posted here in a very long time! Many, many things have happened since my last post! However, today we won’t be focusing on the time that has already passed, I choose to focus on the time to come. 

I’m a total fan of this time of the year. I know it’s controversial as many people might be having a very hard time. That’s exactly why I hope I can spread a little bit of joy here and there. 

It’s my intention today to talk about new beginnings. Did you know that there’s science backing up the positive impact new beginnings can have? A new beginning can take many forms. It can be a random Monday, the first day of each month, maybe your birthday. For many people, it is when we start a new year, and for others it can be every single morning when they first open their eyes. 

What does a new beginning bring? 

A new beginning gives us a blank slate, a second (or third, or fourth) chance, an opportunity to start or to start again. Of course, it doesn’t mean to forget what hasn’t worked before – we’ve definitely learnt from that. But it gives us some hope that this time things can go in a different direction. 

There’s no magic! – Or is there? 

Some people might argue that the success of this actually does not depend so much on the new beginning as such, but on us setting a clear goal, being sure of our intention, and working on the habits to make it work. And I agree! A person taking the time to think about what they really want, setting a clear intention, and working for it is magical enough! It can be pretty impressive what we can achieve with all that determination. 

I don’t know if you are the type of person who believes in the power of new beginnings, but if you are, I really hope the chance of a new year gives you that extra touch of magic to set your mind on whatever your goal is. I want to wish you all the very, very best for 2022! 

What new beginnings are you excited about? If English is one of your goals, I certainly hope you have me in mind for that! Please check our Let’s work together! section for more information on current and upcoming projects. 

Can you think of a friend who would enjoy reading a little bit of English each week? Please ask them to join our Newsletter here! There’s lots more to come!

Thanks a million for being here! It does mean a lot! Until next week, make sure your bilingual brain stays active! See you soon! 

Gaby 🙂

Must love cards

Hiya!!! Thank you sooo much for being here! Roll up your sleeves and let’s go!

The content of this post might surprise you more, or less, depending on where you are in the world and what the culture is there towards cards. Yes, cards, all possible sorts of cards! 

Three and a half years ago I was pleasantly surprised at the fact that the mail – The Royal Mail (doesn’t it sound extremely fancy?) – does not only exist but is vital in this country. I’m talking about actual mail, right? Like the old times when the postman would leave letters at your doorstep. Every single day the “postie” comes to our street in a red van with the Royal Mail logo, parks somewhere, and walks around the neighbourhood popping letters through our doors. Each door has room for letters or even flat packages to be popped through. The sound the flap makes would startle me at the beginning. Eventually, I got used to it. 

All relevant information is sent through the Post: Doctor’s appointments, Nursery/School acceptance letters, even your driving licence! However important that is, it’s not our main focus today. Today I want to discuss the relevance of cards for this community. 

Cards are a vital part of the community. There are shops exclusively devoted to cards. There’s a wide variety of cards in type, size and cost. I won’t focus on the size or cost, just on the type. Get ready!

Birthday cards of all kinds – for boys, for girls, for sons, daughters, husbands, friends, for specific ages. Graduation cards – From Nursery to University. New Home cards. Get Well Soon cards. New Born cards. Thinking Of You cards. Condolences cards. And my favourite ones – Thank You cards! 

If you are organised – like I try to be, though not fully there yet – you might always have a variety of cards at home for the main occasions. At least some that could apply for different circumstances. My dream? A drawer with colourful tag divisions for each of those types of cards! 

What value is behind writing cards? I believe there are a number of positive things behind the simple act of writing cards. It’s a way of showing you care. It implies taking the time to choose the right card and also to think of a message you want to share, plus looking for the words to best express that. The main value is social communication – and within it there’s caring, love, vulnerability and support, among others. 

Is writing cards part of your culture? If not, is that something you think you would enjoy doing? 

Can you think of a friend who would enjoy reading a little bit of  English each week? Please ask them to join our Newsletter here! There’s lots more to come!

Thanks a million for being here! It does mean a lot! Until next week, make sure your bilingual brain stays active! See you soon! 🙂

Last Stop – Barshaw Park!

“Look deep into nature, and then you will understand everything better” – Einstein

Hiya!!! Thank you sooo much for being here! Roll up your sleeves and let’s go!

(If you haven’t read the previous post, you might want to check that before this one)

Barshaw Park is our next – and last – stop in visiting Ralston. 

Some people say that Scotland can have all four seasons on the same day. And although that wouldn’t be exactly true because summer only briefly appears during actual summer, it is true that the weather can be a “bit” unpredictable. You might check the weather forecast on your phone and be assured that the sun is shining, and yet you look through the window and it’s raining heavily or even snowing!!! 

All that being said – and probably as a direct consequence of that – I’ve never been anywhere in the world where people are so focused on the importance of spending time outdoors and taking fresh air. Probably – coming from a country with much more predictable weather – we had always taken that for granted. It was a process for us, but a huge part of our current well-being and of the lifestyle we enjoy here has to do with that. 

There are many lovely green areas near our house – including our own garden!!! However, having the Park just a few blocks away is a huge pro! 

For the sake of our imaginary visit to the Park, I will take you through the route I take at least three times per week when I go for a walk. 

I usually access the Park through the entrance that’s furthest away from my house. To my right, there are two cycling tracks. The first one is for younger kids. It has wee “roads” and some traffic signs. The second one is meant to be used by older kids with more confident cycling skills. To my left, there are two big play areas – again one aimed at younger kids and the other for older ones. There’s also a basketball court close to a big green area with some equipment for exercising. 

As a family, we enjoy all those areas, but remember that it’s just you and me today, so let’s keep walking! 

While we feel the fresh air on our faces, we walk just a little bit more and we’re right next to the pond. Oh yes! There’s a big pond with lots of ducks and swans. Have you ever seen ducks and swans fly? I have! It’s pretty exciting! 

I haven’t mentioned that there’s a café in the Park too. There’s a part for takeaway where they sell ice-cream, sweeties, hot dogs, etc. And there’s a sitting-in area where you can get a good Scottish breakfast, an afternoon tea, or some other wee meals. 

We’re not stopping there today, we’re heading now to the Walled Peace Garden. Before we get there, we can see the beautiful green hill. Let’s be brave, let’s walk to the top and admire the view from there. It’s simply breathtaking. Behind the hill, there used to be two donkeys – “Paisley” and “Buddie” – but they were taken to another Park to live with more animals. We still have two boas, but don’t fear, they aren’t real. The boas are made of painted rocks. Guille and Feli have contributed to that. Some of them are very creative! 

I’m glad we got to the Walled Garden. Let’s choose a nice spot and sit on a bench. Park benches have been donated by families in honour of someone who has passed away. It’s a way of remembering them. No dogs – except for guide dogs – are allowed in the Walled Garden. Volunteers work hard so that the trees, plants and flowers look beautiful. And they certainly do. 

Sit down, take some fresh air and close your eyes. I’ll leave you here, but before that … Do you enjoy spending time outdoors? Where do you choose to go? 

Can you think of a friend who would enjoy reading a little bit of  English each week? Please ask them to join our Newsletter here! There’s lots more to come!

Thanks a million for being here! It does mean a lot! Until next week, make sure your bilingual brain stays active! See you soon! 🙂

Shall we go for a walk?

“The best place to live is where you are right now” – Hannah Simone

Hiya!!! Thank you sooo much for being here! Roll up your sleeves and let’s go!

Right, right … if you read my previous post you already know that I live in Scotland, but where in Scotland? 

We are not too far from the city of Glasgow in a town called Paisley. 

Paisley has a population of a bit more than 77, 200 people –  and for that, it was given the nickname of “Scotland’s biggest town”.  It is located within Renfrewshire Council (geographical and political division). 

Our house is in a neighbourhood a few kilometres away from Paisley’s “downtown”, making a perfect combination between being close to Glasgow, being close to the town centre, and at the same time, enjoying lots of green areas, much more silence and a few wild animals! Isn’t it exciting? Come on! Put your trainers on and let’s go for a walk seeing some of the highlights of our beloved Ralston. 

Can you close your eyes and imagine lovely houses with a wide variety of different greens in every front garden? Trees, bushes, flowers … there are no rails, maybe a short wall, fence or a hedge. A walk around the neighbourhood ensures seeing lots of different types of birds, a couple of cats wandering around, probably some squirrels, and if it’s late at night or very early in the morning, you might even see some foxes! (I’m not a fan of those!) 

Our first stop will be Felipe’s School and Guille’s Nursery – that’s just 5 minutes from our house. Most schools are state/public here. Each Council has a number of schools within their domain. Nursery is for 3 and 4-year-olds and School goes from Primary 1 till Primary 7. Outdoor play and outdoor learning is a big thing in Scotland. And if you’re wondering: “Isn’t Scotland famous for having terrible weather?” You should learn that there’s no such thing as bad weather, just the wrong clothes! Rain or shine, life outdoors doesn’t stop here. 🙂 

All right now, let’s keep walking … a few more blocks and we get to the Library. Yes! We have our very own cosy library. Renfrewshire Council has a number of libraries around the Council, each Council does. The Library has, of course, a lot of shelves packed with a wide range of books, also some computers and a couple of areas to sit down and spend some time browsing through a book of your choice, magazines or newspapers. Libraries were closed since the beginning of the Pandemic and are only reopening now with limited numbers for drop-in. They are a big part of the Community. They used to hold workshops and also “Book Bug” activities for babies/toddlers. They also organise challenges to encourage school children to read more. I must confess that this family misses all that a lot! We can’t wait for a bit more normality to have those back!!! Ahhh! Before I forget! The Library is just right next to the Community Centre and a wee Play Park. It adds up to a lovely outing … and it’s for free! 

We have to walk a wee further now, or shall we take the bus? Be careful! Remember the traffic might come in the opposite direction you’re used to! And if we’re lucky we might get a double-decker! 

(As the next – and last – stop in our walk around Ralston is a very exciting one, I’ll devote the whole next post to it! To be continued …)

To you now! Where in the world are you? What are the highlights of your neighbourhood? 

Can you think of a friend who would enjoy reading a little bit of  English each week? Please ask them to join our Newsletter here! There’s lots more to come!

Thanks a million for being here! It does mean a lot! Until next week, make sure your bilingual brain stays active! See you soon! 🙂

The value of being bilingual

“The limits of my language mean the limits of my world” – Ludwig Wittgenstein

Hiya!!! Thank you sooo much for being here! Roll up your sleeves and let’s go! 

I’m a strong believer in authentic relationships, that’s why in this first post I want to welcome you to our bilingual family of four. 

It’s fair to point out that our family did not start as totally bilingual as we were all born in the same country and Spanish is our first language. That being said, both my husband and I have always shared an interest in languages. Not only because of our careers but also because it allowed us to use them as a tool for other things we truly enjoy doing.  

When we decided to have kids we knew we wanted to raise them being exposed to both English and Spanish. 

Apart from languages, but directly linked to them, Santiago and I have always enjoyed travelling. Living abroad was an experience that we had both had separately, together as a married couple, and even with Felipe. After Guillermo was born, we thought we needed a real life-changing experience for us all. It was not only about being bilingual, it was about being bicultural. 

We closed our life in Uruguay and moved across the ocean, arriving in Scotland at the beginning of 2018. The journey has been amazing! I can’t wait to tell you more about it and how we all have adjusted to being part of this incredible community, while still working on keeping our first language and traditions present in our daily lives. 

The bilingual brain works in an amazing way allowing you to understand the world around you in more detail. Being bilingual is a superpower!  

Enough about us! Your turn now …

Why do you value languages? What do you think they add to your life experience? 

Can you think of a friend who shares that interest in languages with you? Please ask them to join our Newsletter here! There’s lots more to come!

Thanks a million for being here! It does mean a lot! Until next week, make sure your bilingual brain stays active! See you soon! 🙂  

Welcome Post

Hi! Welcome to our journal! 

I want you to know that I really appreciate the time you’re taking to read this and I certainly wish you enjoy it! 

In our weekly posts, I will be telling you about myself and my family – and how we ended up living on the other side of the ocean. I will also share interesting facts, and amazing stories about the place we live, its people and the incredible culture surrounding us. All that combined with language learning and the importance of meaningful communication. 

I truly hope you feel entertained – and also – that you take with you a wee bit of something new from each post. 

Once again thanks a lot for being here, and I can’t wait to share more with you! 🙂